How Do You Tell Someone Your In Love?

2 Mar

You ever want to tell someone you love how you feel but it’s not the right time?

Right now I’m in a space where I want someone who is loyal, honest, motivating, caring, funny and family oriented in my life. Though I’m in this space; I feel like I met that person, he is my best friend, like a brother, and provide of all the qualities I need. With him I feel so happy and free. While he is not here I feel so sad, lonely, tired and just plain bored with life. When he is around I’m myself, I feel so comfortable, like I’m at ease because I hear his caring and powerful voice. I took him for granted when he was here with me and now that he is gone I have a better understanding of his purpose in my life and I don’t want to ever feel this way again. Problem is I don’t know how to tell him, when he already asked me and I declined because of my own fears.

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4 Responses to “How Do You Tell Someone Your In Love?”

  1. Kermit Gondek -04002012-03-19T06:47:11+00:00312012bAmerica/New_YorkMon, 19 Mar 2012 06:47:11 +0000 30, 2011 at 08:52 AM.Mar. #

    Enjoyed studying this, very good stuff, thankyou . “A man does not die of love or his liver or even of old age he dies of being a man.” by Percival Arland Ussher.

    • amberpat -04002012-03-19T22:04:50+00:00312012bAmerica/New_YorkMon, 19 Mar 2012 22:04:50 +0000 30, 2011 at 08:52 PM.Mar. #

      Thank you.

  2. Planet Nicola -04002012-04-07T07:03:52+00:00302012bAmerica/New_YorkSat, 07 Apr 2012 07:03:52 +0000 30, 2011 at 08:52 AM.Apr. #

    You should never say it. And if you do, never ever say it first.
    All the feelings you have for him are not, I repeat NOT, the same as yours. He won’t feel the same as you. Because he’s a man.
    Example: he will not see you as a sister. Etc etc.

    You shouldn’t be feeling so empty when he isn’t around. This becomes very unhealthy longterm and you want to keep away from
    focusing all your energies on just him.
    Think of it like this, if you were him and the moment he comes into contact with you.. you’re ALL him. You have nothing to share or say for yourself.

    Asking YOU if you love him, is a cop out. Let him be the man and say it to you.

    You don’t want to be forever the one in the relationship who does & says things first, believe me.
    Whatever other people say, don’t buy it – don’t say I love you. You don’t need to.
    Save it for a special event or the future when
    things are tough.

    Wait for him to say it. It’ll be better for both of you.

    • amberpat -04002012-04-08T13:53:02+00:00302012bAmerica/New_YorkSun, 08 Apr 2012 13:53:02 +0000 30, 2011 at 08:52 PM.Apr. #

      Thank you. I will keep this in mind because it is so true. Men can often take advantage of a woman when she is vulnerable. Dont worry I know how they half do relationships. They get you to fall but wont build on what you fell for in the first place. I’m definitely living my own life

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