A Narcissistic/Controlling Mother

7 Aug

Who has a mother that is over baring, bossy, do it her way or no way attitude. Yup! That’s my mother for you. I’m sure I’m not alone when it comes to this issue.

Ever since I was a little girl my mother has always controlled my answers to everything and everyone. As you know there are so many opportunities in life that you just want to make count and take advantage of but NO! Not with a narcissist mother you wouldn’t dare. She has to have the say so first. I know its your mother and you have to be grateful for everything she  does because…it’s your mother! And she did the 9 months and was in labor……ya know.  Though she is your mother, there comes a time in life where you do become an adult of your own woman or man, and grow a brain of your own, which has taken a lot of time to be created. You know how I know? Because  it took 21 years to actually slow down. Therefore we don’t need another person trying to control it, its intimating our very own mind. Don’t you think? Imagine putting all of your hard work into something your trying to create and then this narcissist comes and tries to control everything and put her name on what you worked so hard to complete. That is what a narcissistic mother is like. A Pain in the Ass!

Bean quota: Love your mother, cherish the good moments you share with her but don’t be afraid to let her know you have a brain and you don’t need a narcissist, you need support. – Amber Pat

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