Introducing your boyfriend to the family!

5 Jul

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I wonder what other people go through when introducing their boyfriend to their family for the first time. Like, what did Beyonce say to her mother when she found out how old Jay-z was? How the hell do you break that type of news to your parents? What did First Lady Michelle’s mom say to her, when she brought home a guy with the name, Barack Obama? I bet she didn’t think he would end up as one of the most historical, and honored President’s in the world. Now that is some, “Obama for your momma.” What did Linda Bollea’s parents say when she brought home the freaking, Hulk Hogan? :-/ In my case, I feel like it’s:

  • Nerve rackingtina knowles
  • Annoying
  • Rushed
  • Complicated
  • The wrong damn time!

My mother is trying to pressure me into introducing my boyfriend to them, even though we are not ready. I can understand, why they would want to meet him and I realize that they don’t trust me as an adult. They still think I am in high school, but they need to GET OVER IT! Of course I wouldn’t tell my mother and father that to their face.

The man that I am in a great, sustainable relationship with is my best friend and partner. I don’t want anyone or anything getting in the middle of that right now because we are in the process of learning about our relationship our damn selves. Therefore, the reason for not introducing them YET is, because parents can be:

  • Judgmental
  • Egotistical
  • Impatient
  • Awkward
  • Talkative
  • Intimidating
  • Embarrassing
  • Enough Said!

obama and mama I would rather take my time, so my parents don’t drive the both of us crazy. Eventually I would love for my parents to meet my boyfriend but not today…! I’m trying to give it a little more time before they show their narcissistic side. The thought of it freaks me out!

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