Choosing A Different Outlet: Friendships

26 Feb

You ever feel like sometimes you tell your friends too much information about your personal situations, solely because you feel that you can trust them with your secrets?

I have come to the conclusion that I need to STOP immediately. I have a male friend that I tell entirely too much of my personal business to and I need to find a different outlet. What makes matters worse is that we ended up dating, but that didn’t work and I’m not surprised. The problem is I have grown too comfortable with him and I find myself getting way too attached, more than with anyone I have ever had a relationship with and I think its definitely a problem.

I’m not sure what the outlet could be. Maybe I should try working out at the gym to get out my problems, writing to myself, listening to songs that express what I feel at the moment, or praying. I need to choose something. I wonder how many people deal with this issue, woman or man. It’s a big No – No.

I just don’t want anyone I get in a relationship with, to get too comfortable thinking they can always figure me out because I have always made myself seem so predictable, by tell too much of my personal business. This is a bad habit I have grown into, but I’m glad I’m realizing it now.

Bean quota: Keep your private, private and your mind open.




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