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Quick: Transformation Guide to a Better You #2

14 Aug

The final steps that will help you live your life in a positive way. Believe in yourself because you can do this.

STEP 2

Take care of the things you possess. This shows gratitude for what you are fortunate enough to have. Meaning, keep your space clean and free from clutter. Clutter can be such a distraction and it can be depressing. Have you ever felt so refreshed after you have cleaned your space. Imagine feeling this daily. If you find this difficult, try cleaning one thing daily to start.

Believe in your purpose with conviction. Pursue the goals you would like to achieve and DO NOT give up. People can be discouraging towards them selves and not even realize it. Don’t discourage yourself, UPLIFT your self. Even in doubt because there is support out here. I am supported every time I share a post on WordPress and I am truly grateful for you all, as my supporters who uplift me and encourage me to keep writing.  

Walk with confidence. Your posture makes a difference in the way you are approached by others and even the way you feel about yourself. When you stand in confidence, you exude strength, resilience, and power. Don’t let anyone or anything take that away from you.

For my personal gain, I pray every day twice daily. Morning and night. Some people are not spiritual and I will not place judgement on your beliefs. I will always encourage prayer but not force it upon anyone because everyone has their own individual journey. 

Remember to always think positive in every moment because your perception is a reflection of YOU. -Amber

Best wishes to you!

Quick: Self Transformation Guide to a Better You

6 Aug

For those who are struggling everyday trying to figure out why your life is not going as planned, take the time to transform your mind set and focus your energy on positivity.

Like you, there were many days and nights I did not understand the direction my life was going. It’s because my life was not going the way I foresaw it and it caused me to think negative and exude negative energy in my daily life. This can make life hard, less enjoyable, and often lonely.

I challenge you to the first step in changing your life.

STEP 1

Rest 8-12 hours daily. 

Eat healthy Foods like : greens, avocado and fruits

Do one thing daily to help another person

One positive change in a person a day can help transform the world, so why not start with you.

 

 

Question: What Women Really NEED from a Man..

19 Jun

 

For a while I have tried to figure out the answer to what I really want from a man. I have came up with a long list.  When I really should have been concentrating on what I need.

Like most young single women we want so much, but are willing to give very little. Then some, give too much while receiving very little in return. This could also be effecting your relationships or lack there of. So I starting thinking what is it twww.1coffeehouse.wordpress.comhat I really need!

Figuring out what I need prevents confusion based on illusions when I am attracted to a guy. It’s like running a mile race with no hints of direction, but you can still see the finish line. You need a guide and ladies your needs may be different from mine. For example, I will state what I need.

I need a man that can protect me from hurt by helping me feel secure in our relationship which means being consistent, persistent and stable. Share intimacy with me that my finger or battery device can’t satisfy nor replace. Provide me with company when I need someone to share my deepest thoughts with. A partner to help me manifest my goals into a reality. Even if I am successful at accomplishing some on my own, there is always room for more. A man that will respect my role as a women instead of taking advantage of me as a woman.

Men if your out there and understand, please come thru.

What I want is different from what I need. Wants can be impractical, illusive, physical and materialistic. It is troublesome and threatening to a male ego. It’s like a man meeting a perfectly good women but he doesn’t notice her because her breast are not enlarged or her butt isn’t big enough compared to Nicki Minaj i.e hurts female ego.

I am not implying that you should settle for less, but focus on what matters most. Do you often think about your needs versus your wants? If so, do you put your needs first?

On another note: I’d like you to take a look at the link below and think about your role as a woman. Also if you are a man, do you agree with Queen Wuraola-Zynab Ogunwusi objection to gender equality?

Bean Quota of the Day: CHOICES

16 Dec

Don’t be defined or afraid of your choices because they are only lessons and chapters of your life, to give you the wisdom and strength to lead by example. The urge to be persistent and persevere. The knowledge to change and be better than yesterday. The faith to encourage you, not to stray away from what is true, indeed it is the higher power in you to make choices. – Amber P.

Understanding the Course of Life

16 Dec

I have been trying to understand the course of my life and why things happen the way they happen. Why I hurt, why I smile, why I go through the transitions in life of ups and downs and what makes me happy and how to stay happy?

I have come to the realization that life will happen the way it is suppose to whether I agree or disagree. I just have to prepare myself to go along for the ride. I can sit around waiting for things to happen for me or keep moving. Sitting and waiting is too depressing.

Today I am choosing to keep on moving and enjoy my journey.

Now I understand the purpose of meditation and why it is important and how it makes a difference. It helps relax my body, mind and soul, instead of asking for things I want in prayer. I am learning to accept who I am and what I have by being silent and being more concerned about what I feel versus what I see. The more I appreciate who I am, the easier it is to accept who I am.self-improvement-dream-life

 

College Graduates Versus College Drop Outs: Is College Really Worth It To Get Your Dream Job and Career?

19 Apr

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Hello,
I recently graduated, with business management as my major. I graduated from a four year college and I am unemployed, like millions of others people today and in the past. I used to think college was the path to a successful job and career. I thought others who graduated college were all successful but I was wrong. I’m learning fast.

I have been unemployed for almost a year now and I have had a lot of time to think and education myself from real life situations, which I consider to be, the best education. There has been so much on my mind since I have graduated; bare with me while I try to even but it into words.

Long story short; I have come to the conclusion that I have wasted time and money going to a four year institute. Why?
After spending much of my time applying to several jobs and searching as to why the hell I am unemployed with a degree fresh out of college, I realized most people without a degree are making more than me right now and know what they want and how to get it because they simply have the knowledge from real life experiences and have job training that I obviously was not given at college.

I’m going to keep this short. I am letting anyone out there, feeling as though they can’t succeed with out an education from a university or four year college, that they are wrong! For any students and graduating students that think they are better or more educated because they went to a university or four year college, you are not better, you just have a sheet of paper that says you have a degree.

I am not belittling education, what I am saying is, ” where and how you get educated has nothing to do with your work ability nor intelligence. It does not make you more qualified nor more likely to succeed in a job nor career.” You as a person determine your success. You can define your own success and the truth is, the more researching, networks, and experiences you have; the better. Don’t put your self in so much debt because colleges and the media are persuading you into expensive, and unrealistic ways of getting an education. There are many successful and rich people that didn’t go to college, barely high school; although it could be the reason the society is so messed up today. People are good at selling people anything they can to live off of others hard earned money. Don’t Believe The Hype!

For anything that you want, Go Get IT! By working for it and taking the time you need to be the best you can at what you want. Don’t let anyone in this world tell you what you can’t do because you can! You can!

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